Cancer patients, whether they have just received their diagnosis or are in the process of treatment, usually appreciate cards sent by co-workers, friends, and family. Those who are in the hospital or confined to the bed at home can get a physical and emotional lift from the reminder that people care about them and are thinking or praying for them.
Choosing the Card
There are get well cards that express sentiments for almost any situation, including cancer. Some people may not send cards, because they fear saying the wrong thing. Retail cards that express traditional get well thoughts are a good option for those who are not sure if they can write an appropriate message. This is also the best choice if the patient is not a close friend, but rather an acquaintance or a co-worker. Cards with religious or inspirational writings are appropriate to send to those who would appreciate that kind of thought.
Writing the Message
Cards with a printed message accompanied by a hand-written note do not offend most cancer patients. The card should not be sympathetic in anything approaching a gloomy way. The recipient already knows he is going through a difficult time. He would rather read a brief, encouraging message of hope than one of sympathy that dwells on the negative aspects of his illness.
Specifics
The most important thing card senders should do is write honestly. If someone does not know what to say, he can say that. An example of this would be, "I cannot find the words to express my feelings about your cancer diagnosis. I just wanted you to know that I think of you often and am praying for your recovery." This is a simple but sincere sentiment.
Humor can be a good way to relay get well messages to cancer patients, especially if the card is for a close friend or family member. People who know each other well will be aware of the patient's sense of humor and what amuses him. There are many humorous cards that are appropriate. Helping the patient laugh is a great way to lift the spirits.
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